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We live in a very sexual world. There are mixed
messages about sex all around us — on the radio and
TV, in the movies, magazines and music. Sex is used to sell
everything from soap to sports cars. Political and religious
leaders have a lot to say about sex, too. So do people in
locker rooms, malls and in our homes. And
our kids hear it all!
- Set good examples that shows kids how our lives are enriched
by our values.
- Reassure them that they are normal.
- Build their self-esteem; give credit for talents and
accomplishments, offer constructive advice, avoid criticism
and punishment.
- Respect teenagers’ privacy as much as we value
our own. Do not pry.
- Use correct names for sex organs and sexual behaviors.
- Take advantage of “teachable moments.” Neighborhood
gossip, and TV shows can help start the conversation.
- Be clear about our values and let kids know that others
may have different values about sexuality. Teach them that
respect for differences is important. Give accurate, honest,
short and simple answers.
- Admit when you don’t know an answer. We can help
our kids find the answer in a book or other resources.
Our children live in a time when they can grow up with the
sexual health information they need to be able to celebrate
and express their sexuality while protecting themselves and
their partners. The Planned Parenthood Family Communication
Series offers families positive, and helpful guidance for
learning about human sexuality.
For more information contact PPRI
Education Department at (401) 421-7820 ext 3117.
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